Five Reasons Never to Take Fitness Advice From Me


This might seem a bit weird, but bear with me for a minute. First, anyone who follows running, fitness, or healthy eating blogs knows that many of these are written by people with little to no expertise in these fields. They have love and passion, and perhaps some talent and knowledge – but in general they have jobs in other areas and have slowly gained expertise and as bloggers want to spread that expertise.

For the most part that is harmless … but sometimes when people get a voice – they get POWER, and it makes them think they suddenly ARE experts. That isn’t me, and if I read your blog, you can be sure I don’t feel that way about you. Because I have no problem contacting someone directly when they veer into the ‘danger zone’ … I alluded to one such exchange about winter running safety.

The other reason I am writing this is because in 2012 when I started losing weight and running in public, I gained a lot of attention at the small Corning development facility where my project was located. People asked me about ‘my secret’ and those who were trying to lose weight approached me looking either for support or insight … and those who ‘fell off the wagon’ were embarrassed and avoided me. Again I suddenly found myself in a position where people looked to me for ‘expert advice’!

Let me be clear I don’t have any such illusion! Far from it – in fact, I have a mantra “what works for me … works for me”! And that is why I wanted to talk about why you shouldn’t look to me for health and fitness advice

1. I am not an expert of any type. To be more specific:
– FITNESS – I am a runner. I belonged to a gym for two years. I belonged to a Nautilis gym for 3 months in my freshman year of high school. That is the entirety of my fitness credentials. Impressive, eh?
– NUTRITION – While I have always loved fresh fruits and vegetables, to say that I have suffered from disordered eating my entire life would be an understatement. When I first started losing weight 25 years ago I did it through exercise and pretty significant dietary restriction. And honestly every time I slacked during the years that was my answer – tighten up my running routine, and cut back on eating.

These past two years have been different. I am eating the largest breakfasts of my life, normal lunches, and moderate dinners. I have played around with quinoa, flax, and on and on. My eating is a work in progress, though I truly believe that some of my new habits will stick with me forever – like my love of fruit and vegetables.

2. I can JUST run … and nothing else – this is a three-fold problem:
– Boredom: most people would get bored doing the same thing again and again.
– Injury: continue to pound the same muscles again and again … and you are more likely to get hurt. A mixed fitness plan is a much better idea for most people.
– Lack of cross-training: without mixing up your workouts, it is more of a challenge to hit all of your running goals.

3. My running regulates my diet naturally – I have lost 25 pounds or more 5 times in my life at this point. And 4 of them looked like this: start running 4-5 days per week, eat better, done. (the other time involved getting on thyroid meds and joining a gym. When I start running I crave healthy foods and find unhealthy food unappealing. So while I have always done some amount of ‘I run to eat’, that is more confined to a bowl of ice cream at night than anything else.

4. I have never hit a frustrating plateau – I have many folks I know who are stuck at that ‘last 10 pounds’ or unable to get into a running routine, or whatever. So when I go back to the Bloom County ‘Eat less and exercise’ comics, it just works for me – and as a result I really feel I lack the skill set to help someone struggling at the end. Are they over-training, undertraining, snacking too much, eating too little? I dunno …

5, I have never had a running injury – at first this might make you think ‘hey, that is a reason TO ask you for advice, I want your secret!’ But the reality is that while I have tremendous sympathy for those suffering exercise injuries, I lack true empathy because I have not experienced an inability to get up and go running; as a result I am useless in terms of developing strategies or coping mechanisms.

So there you have it – reminders of why I should not be a fitness or nutrition resource for you. As I said at the beginning, there are loads of people who – like me – are not really qualified to be handing out advice. Most of them are very clear that what they say is about what works for them – but beware those who do not!

11 thoughts on “Five Reasons Never to Take Fitness Advice From Me

  1. Yes! I agree. Hopefully I’m not one of those blogs… But I think it is so important that we treat other bloggers as friends and review with a critical eye what works for them! That’s part of the reason I think I struggle with some blogs (and stop reading them) that promote a diet or fitness routine as doctrine. Unless you’re my doctor (and I even take that with a grain of salt), you have no idea what I need!

    • Haha – now I’ll have to give you crap in a comment on your blog πŸ™‚ I like the thought about treating other bloggers as friends – because we do develop relationships in this community. Thanks for the perspective!

  2. Great points! Although I would take running advise from you! πŸ™‚ I do feel that we are all so different that it is very hard for even the ‘professionals’ to give a blanket answer of what someone should be doing. You really do have to find what works for you!

    • Definitely agree – and that is why having so many blogs makes it fun, as we can learn a little bit from everyone! Doesn’t mean anyone has ‘the answer’, but since we tend to overthink things we explain it all out and maybe an extra nugget of wisdome falls out!

  3. I agree that we bloggers often veer too much into the “I know what’s right and you should do it” territory (please call me out on this, I love your feedback!). BUT … part of the reason we’re so intrigued by fitness blogs is that we learn from what works for others, and adapt it to what works for us. And I do think there’s a ton of value in that! So while you may not be an expert in all things fitness, you are an expert in what works and doesn’t work for your body, and those of us who hang around want to hear it! But you’re definitely in the minority on #2!!

    • So true on #2! And you are absolutely right on visiting and learning from all of these blogs – I have learned so much these past couple of years about pretty much everything! It was funny – I learned about Fartleks a year or so ago, and posting about it on Facebook a high school friend noted that they did them in high school track … 30 years ago! πŸ™‚ Oh well, it was new to me!

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  5. I love this. It’s so true! I love to talk and share but I’m not expert by any means! Funny how everyone thinks they are just because ppl like their blog!

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