Last week I promised to share some good news with a little tease, and noted that those who follow me on social media already saw it. So for those who don’t, here is the news: our older son Danny applied ‘early decision’ to New York University and specifically the Tisch School of the Arts in the film program.
And … he was accepted! Not just that, he got what my wife called a ‘BIG ASS SCHOLARSHIP’ that meant rather than the expected tense sitting around the table with computer, pencil and slide rule trying to squeeze out enough money to get him there … last week were able to simply say ‘you’re going’, click the ‘Accept Offer’ button (which naturally comes with a good sized ‘deposit’ requirement) and that is it … he is part of the NYU class of 2019.
If you asked me a year ago when we were going to be now … I wouldn’t have known what to tell you. He was getting solid grades but his study habits were atrocious, and in one of his AP classes it was having a significant impact, and so we got him involved in a special ‘study plan’ that involved the teacher and guidance office. We did that for a few months and while I would like to say it helped, I think that simply maturing, having older friends graduating and heading to college and having his own aspirations are what mostly got him back on track.
It has been an amazing transformation – he has grown up and matured so much into an amazing young man, with an incredible artistic vision and deep and insightful way of looking at the world.
When looking at colleges it is one thing to look on paper, another to see it in person. So while he had an interest in RIT (Rochester Institute of Technology), he pretty well hated the campus. He liked the University of Rochester Campus, but not the programs. His other schools he liked for both academics and the campus were Syracuse, SUNY Purchase, and Boston University. But NYU … there was just a palpable difference … this was totally his place. There was no question – it was a great fit.
I want to share his portfolio video that he submitted (and wanted to get his permission, which he gave me yesterday), but first wanted to share some images from our trip:
It was a great vacation, and more importantly we came away with the school that was far and away his top choice … and will now be where he is living starting in Fall 2015. Here is his portfolio video (note – there is NSFW language and difficult themes):
That’s awesome! Kudos to you and your wife for raising such an insightful & thoughtful young man. I hope he enjoys New York! Sounds like he’s following a real dream!
Thanks Sara – we are so proud. I wrote during my ‘Gratitude’ series about seeing your kids not only doing things that make you proud, but that are beyond your abilities … and this was certainly one of them. We were (and of course always will be) worried about him in NYC, but it was such a great match for everything about him …
Acceptance AND big scholarship is very brag worthy! That’s awesome for everyone!
Thanks Michele! Amazing when they become so grown up …
Such fantastic news. I look forward to seeing more from him-great eye!
Thanks Laura – I am such a mediocre photographer, the boys definitely get that eye from my wife 🙂
Congratulations to all! To Danny for such an incredible academic accomplishment, and to you and Lisa for fostering an environment and family to get him there. Don’t be worried about him in NYC–he is a smart kid, and as long as he uses his head, he will be a-ok. You know he is going to be in my old stomping grounds! Let me know if you need any fears assuaged, or have any questions about city life–I would be happy to help!
Thanks Suz … and while we’ll always worry, being where NYU is located and with how great of a fit it is, I actually worry less than if he was in Syracuse … And yes, I know that is right in your old area – hopefully no birds will be decorating his cap 😉
Congrats to everyone. It’s such a nice area (only 90 minutes north of me). Plus that school is incredible.
Thanks Hollie – for us it is four hours and my brother is in Princeton which is just an hour away!
Woohoo!!! Congrats Danny (and you and Lisa), what an incredible way to go into the holiday season! And this is SO very brag worthy and amazing on the scholarship too! I loved the video, but it threw me off at first with his friends calling him Jordan! He clearly is very talented and I can’t wait to see how he takes on NYC next year (and beyond!)
Thanks Sara … watching that video and knowing the kids so well was definitely interesting – moreso because I was home for some of the filming, hearing it from the other room 🙂
That’s wonderful news! I wish him the best of luck, success and good times!
Thanks so much Judith … as you well know, you never know what the future holds, and this is not a ‘secure career path’ field he has entered to be sure, so it promises to be an adventure no matter what!
I’m sure he’ll be fine. He’s got great parents to back him up no matter what.
Thanks – but that doesn’t mean we’ll ever stop worrying 😉 For every moment we see a mature adult, there seems to be one where he is still a little boy who could use a bit of ‘guidance’ haha
Getting his top school is pretty amazing! Throw a scholarship on top of that, wow! Congrats to him, you and your family!
Thanks Fallon – let’s just say that his Christmas break totally changed because of this 🙂
Congratulations to your son! I watched the film clip, very sad but effective, and very well done. If that’s what he does now I can’t wait to see what he does after his degree! Great that he got funding too. NY must be a great place for a young person to be, especially in the protective environment of a university. You must be so proud!!
Thank you Julie – we’re very proud … and really found the video sad as well.
I can’t get over how incredibly awesome this is! Tisch! What?! I can’t imagine how incredibly proud you are. And a scholarship? Phew! I watched that video and he is a real talent. Beautiful and thoughtful, right down to the choice in music (gets me every time; you know that). So mature. Congrats to you all.
Thanks Sarah – the video definitely is heavy! And I love that use of music-as-character as well 🙂
What a wonderful holiday for all of you!!! Congratulations! Tisch and a “big ass scholarship”–WOW
I know you are proud of him—and I am proud of you! Rising a kid isn’t easy, especially during the teen years, As a parent, you try so hard to do it right–second guessing, back-stepping, stepping up, etc. Having the acknowledgement by someone /or somewhere else that your kid is as great as you know he is—is a great pat on yours and Lisa’s backs, too!
Way to go!!!
Completely agree Clare – it is a weird distinction to make, I mean, we all think our kids are wonderful and want them to have endless opportunities, but with each year it is as if the infinite number of doors start to close and they need to deal with what they can really do. And as parents it is hard to be objective, so yeah it is great getting that type of feedback!
So darn freaking amazing! Congrats to him and to you!
Thanks Laura 🙂 Great Christmas present for all of us!
Congratulations again! This is so very exciting!
And thanks again Rachel 🙂
Wow–that is a super huge accomplishment! Well done, parents! (and son!)
Thanks Amanda – we’re quite proud! 🙂
That’s great news! What a relief to have the decision made, getting in to first choice, not having to worry about the financial bulk of it, and to now just get to celebrate and plan. So exciting for all of you!
Thanks Carina … definitely a relief to get these things behind us! 🙂
Very cool, congrats! Just don’t let him take my job (I’m a TV producer)! 😉
Thanks! Haha – that was more the push from the Boston University crowd, but you really never know where these things will end up over the years 🙂
Congratulations! That is wonderful news!
Thanks Lizzy! 🙂
Congrats, that is such exciting news! What a great way to go into the holidays. I’m sure that its a great feeling to know that his plans are figured out for the most part!
Thanks Lisa! It is a great feeling!
Ahh! This is amazing that he got accepted AND got that scholarship! Congrats to him! I hope this means lots of trips to NYC in your future! It’s such a great city! 🙂
Thanks! It is only 4 hours away for us, not too bad. We prefer Boston, but really the Soho area where NYU is located is the most ‘Boston-like’ part of the city. And it was such a great match for him!